Do You Believe in Yourself?

How much do you believe in yourself and your abilities? Quite a lot of people start losing their self-confidence, when these questions are put forward to them.

We are currently bombarded with excessive information via the social media applications. You are receiving too much information where it can also be questioned on its validity. Cancel culture by itself is doing more harm and becoming overwhelmingly toxic. False news quickly engages from one person to the other. Strong opinions are formed, uncalled damages starts taking place and before you know it, a huge mess is already created.

What amazes me, is that people are more than willing to compromise their personal security, credibility and ethics at the expense of these social media applications. When you are going for a job interview, you are asked about your social media account information as a reference. In some instances, when you are applying for a travel visa to some countries, they ask the same. Whilst you would like to present yourself with profession integrity, skeleton in the closet seems to appear from any one of your social media accounts. What happens hereafter is already damaging enough.

I am not asking about your belief system, which means your religion, philosophy or even your moral code. You are truly entitled to your beliefs, if any, that you feel strongly about. What I am asking is your ability to believe that you are capable of achieving better results, if and when you take the necessary effort to do so. It finally boils down to what you actually think of yourself.

If you have low opinion and being very negative about it, then you will need to motivate yourself. Do not be intimidated by your surroundings, and people who you believe is much better than you. Your mind is able to process and filter the comparisons between yourself and them. You are already one step ahead, but unable to make use of this comparative tool effectively. You seem to convert the positivity that you see in others, in being negative limitations in yours. Stop doing it!

Although there are so many challenges out there,
there is nothing to fail you unless you decide to fail yourself.
Maximus @ MaximusPrimo.com

Lynn Grabhorn, in her book, “ Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting ” explains on the power of positive feelings. She says, “ Learn to identify a good feeling, from a bad feeling ”. If you are able to do this without any apprehension, then your path is well chartered, since your mind and body will progress to execute your healthy desires.

You might have read about some high achievers who are physically challenged. These people are without legs, arms, some being blind and others are partially paralyzed. They are still able to achieve so many things in their life because they strongly believe, they can do it. From that point of thought, they make all effort to push themselves, achieving recordable positive outcomes that are highlighted to every other person to reflect upon themselves.

Whatever the challenges, by seeing it positively, it helps you become a better person. If you are someone who gets angry quickly for the slightest thing, by overcoming this negative behavior, it will help you be a better person amongst family, friends, your colleagues and most of all, yourself too.

My Positive Attitude Success Pyramid^© is designed to help you take this journey. Believe in yourself, and if you meet someone who also believes that you can do it, keep them close by you. They can encourage your successes and motivate you even further. These people are in rarity, but there are out there. Keep your ears and eyes open.

Be strong and stay strong. Your failures will help you succeed better. Your mistakes are not to be repeated, but to let you know where you went wrong.

You need to have a healthy body, so remember to stay healthy too. Exercise for 15 to 30 minutes a day and do not procrastinate. No excuses of having short of time and being just too busy. Learn to manage your time and you will see reciprocal outcome in you managing other tasks well. Meditate, so that your mind and body will be in harmony.