Cause and Effect – The Universal Rule?

Anything you do, has a tangible effect. When you act on something, either pre-planned, intentional or unintentional, you will see its effect taking place. That is the norm.

However, from young, you are also influenced by your elders embedding fear factors within you. Nearly anything you plan to do, the high possibility of ill effect is greater to occur and you are told to careful always. It started off with an interest to take care of your safety and well-being. Unfortunately, it turned out to be more volatile in nature, as your growth now is hampered with dogmatic beliefs. This relates to the high possibility of you being suppressed, not by others, but by your own lack of confidence.

We can be our own worst enemy. So, the fight begins from within. Here are some guides for your to start from.

Remove Your Obsessive Thoughts
In behaving obsessively, you will greatly lose control of yourself and make really bad decisions.

Find Your Mental Emergency Brake
When you get very compulsive from your obsession, you will be medically diagnosed having OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder), also known as a mental disorder. Similarly, you want to be an overachiever, possibly comparing yourself with someone you know. The inability of you not being able to do what the other person is capable of, will torment you. You lose focus on yourself and start to retrograde.

Believe In Your Abilities
When you do not have the confidence in what you are able to do, a simple manner is to list down your weaknesses or limitations. Ask yourself, are you able to make changes in the list to improve yourself. You must be realistic.

When you are a hands-on person and not academic inclined, it is highly possible that taking up Python Data Analysis Programming course can be really challenging for you. Instead, if you take a course that is related to your hands-on ability, something that will give you both the drive and passion, then you will accomplish it easily and in fact with flying colors.

We are driven to do our best, once we become comfortable with our own abilities. Your cause and effect.

Give It Up
No, not your positive dreams. I am asking you to give up your animosity, anger, hatred, jealousy and being envious. Remember I spoke about the ‘demon within you‘ in my earlier blog? It will eat you up, make you someone who is investing negative energies, when the same amount of accumulated energy can be positive in nature. It is really challenging to build up positive energy and to keep it consistent within you, whilst negative energy is really easy to remain and can accumulate easily Don’t eat yourself up.

Stop The Blame Game
Yes, you are quick to blame someone else, but not yourself. However, there is another type of person who likes to blame themselves for everything and anything, even if it is not related to them. Remember the Mental Emergency Brake? Yeah, use it on yourself. Focus and keep good thoughts in your mind. Dump all your profanity words and replace it with good ones. If you don’t know any good words, then stop cussing.

Energize Yourself
Be amongst people who exuberate positive energy, that can motivate and lead you in their similar progress. If someone is willing to guide you, sharing their personal experiences and let you explore the path to your own successes, you are good to go. These people will be there for you, as long as you take your sincere initiatives, determination and dynamic approaches to your goals.

Summary
Cause and effect are not a universal rule. Your actions are. The nature that surrounds you is malleable to mold you when you respect it. Similarly, is your mind and body. Learn to progressively make positive changes, small to start, step by step by your encouragement from within. Self-realization is an awakening process, rewarding all by itself.

You might have heard the proverbial saying, “ Give a person a fish, and you will feed them for a day. Teach the person how to fish, and you will feed them for a lifetime ”. This is part of your progressive thinking to lead you to Positive Attitude.